Life{Divorce}Cycle

Even after divorce, big life moments happen with your former spouse.
A birth, a wedding, a funeral, a bar mitzvah: These are the new frontiers of divorce.
How will you navigate them?

Once in a while…

Your ex-partner will also be at the life event.

Your divorce re-enters at a big moment in your life that you are not quite prepared for: a wedding, a funeral, a graduation or a Bar/Bat Mitzvah.

You have to co-plan and/or co-fund the life cycle event with your ex-partner.

A reunion with your ex during a lifecycle moment can…

  • Add anxiety
  • Re-open old wounds
  • Take focus away from the actual event

Jews Get Divorce offers one-on-one consulting and resources for these moments based on these questions:

1. How do you plan a shared event? 
2. How do you communicate in a post-divorce world for the sake of your kids? 
3. How do you mentally plan for your ex to attend an event that you planned yourself or your ex planned? 
4. How do you mentally plan for an event with your ex that will be full of your family? 
5. How do you balance care for the event with care for self? 

To reduce the stress of these events we offer: